Is Divorce Selfish?

“All you can think about is yourself. You’re so selfish!” These were the words I heard fall from my ex-husband’s lips when I told him I wanted a divorce. The very same man who had spent 17 years calling me names, hitting, slapping, and choking me. The same guy who…

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Embrace Overwhelm

Overwhelm. Of all the words people use to describe divorce, overwhelm is in the top 5. You know the feeling – drowning in a too long to do list, much of it unfamiliar, and all of it scary. Sometimes the feeling is so strong, it’s paralyzing. Where to begin? How to…

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